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  • New writing practice

    I just learned a new writing practice that really helped me uncover what is driving me crazy – people, places, and things I cannot control. It’s a sentence stem – “It is not ok with me that …” and I was asked to write 20-30 responses. Guess what? At least 80% of my list are…

  • Giving up on fixing

    I am a recovering fixer. I still want to wave my magic wand and make everything and everyone ok. Over the years, though, I’ve learned a few things – Who am I to critique anything and deem it wrong and that I have the knowledge and ability to fix it? Natural consequences do more to…

  • It’s a doozie

    I’ve learned the hard way just how damaging sharing to connect can be. I’m neuro-divergent / neuro-spicy / gifted / domestic violence abuse survivor / sexual assault survivor / child of alcoholism / you name it. Sharing my lived experiences has been sooooo natural I didn’t even know I was doing it. And – unbeknownst…